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My Miracle. Happy Birthday Megan!

Happy Birthday Megan!

Nineteen years ago today a miracle happened. I had my baby girl.  It was a very scary day for me and my family because she wasn’t supposed to be born until mid April.

The morning before she was born, Jeff left for work and everything was fine. I fell back asleep only to be awakened by a feeling like my water broke. I got up and went into the bathroom only it wasn’t water, it was blood and a lot of it. I called my sister Sharon right away and then Pam and Sue. They were all over so fast. My mom and dad lived up north then but when they got the call they made it here in record time. They called an ambulance and off I went to the hospital not knowing what was happening to my baby.

I was bleeding but I didn’t have any labor pains. At this point they told me I would be staying in the hospital until my baby was born which was one and a half months away. That evening I started to have labor pains. They gave me medicine to stop the labor but Megan wasn’t having it. They said my baby was in distress and I had to get to surgery immediately.

They sent Jeff home and just when he walked in the door, he had to turn back around because I was being rushed into to an emergency C-section.

I remember laying on the table crying and thinking the worst.

When she was born I saw a glimpse of her before they scooped he up and ran out the door with her and she looked like a little baby bird that got kicked out of the nest. She was 3 lbs. 4 ounces.

I went into recovery and Jeff came back with some pictures and showed me our new baby girl. She had wires and tubes and I was scared to look at them.

She spent a month in the NICU and she was so tiny. She had to be fed through a tube in her nose. We would visit her every day and some days we couldn’t touch her or hold her. I would cry all way home. I remember one time we went to see her and she was naked on her tummy with her butt sticking up in the air and all you could see were two bones where her butt should be. They said she was sick and we couldn’t see her that day and we both cried as we walked back out the door to go to the car.

They finally let her come home when she reached 4 lbs. but she had to be on a heart monitor until she was about 8 months old because she would forget to breathe. When the monitor went off we had to give her a shake to remind her to breathe.

Today is Megan's 19th birthday and she has grown into a beautiful young lady. I just can’t believe where the time went. We went through her baby book last night and she really loved reading all about her self as a baby.

Tonight we are going to the casino for her Birthday.

Thank you god for our beautiful Megan.

Comments

Anonymous said…
Happy Birthday to your Miracle baby!!
Missie
Anonymous said…
From the day you were born, you have always held a very special place in my heart. You are like my second daughter and i love you soooo much. Happy Birthday my love. Aunt Pammy
Anonymous said…
Happy Birthday to your beautiful Megan.  You were given a real blessing to enjoy and cherish after your scary beginning in having your daughter.  Yes, she's indeed a miracle and so are you dear.  Arlene (AJ)
Anonymous said…
She is a gorgeous girl....and what a scary beginning she had!!! I am so glad to see that this story had such a happy ending and HAPPY BIRTHDAY to MEGAN!

((hugs))
Jeanne
Anonymous said…
I can't see the pictures.. :(   AOL is acting up again, and it's like that at every journal I visit.  No pictures.

Happy Birthday, Megan!  That was a beautiful story!

Hugs
Jackie
http://journals.aol.com/siennastarr/Hopefloats/
Anonymous said…
Happy belated Birthday Megan!!!

She is sooo beautiful

Hugs
Terri
Anonymous said…
what a beautiful daughter you have...Happy belated birthday to you Megan....many, many more....
Kelly
Anonymous said…
Happy belated birthday to Megan.     She is truly beautiful.     You and Jeff did good!!! LOL        Hugs,   Dawn
Anonymous said…
Awwww.  I read this too late to see the pictures.  What a frightening beginning, but what a lovely gal she's turned out to be.  I know she has been very important to you and a wonderful support during your rough times.  She's been a blessing to you.  Happy Birthday late Megan!
Stephanie
Anonymous said…
Awwww.  I read this too late to see the pictures.  What a frightening beginning, but what a lovely gal she's turned out to be.  I know she has been very important to you and a wonderful support during your rough times.  She's been a blessing to you.  Happy Birthday late Megan!
Stephanie
Anonymous said…
(sorry about the double post)  I saw the pictures!  What a cute baby she was!  I can see you in her, even when so small.  I love the new black and white photos.  She's very photogenic.
Steph
Anonymous said…
Happy Belated Birthday Megan.

I hope that you had a wonderful day.

She has turned into a beautiful woman !!

hugs Jayne

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